How To Get Your Boyfriend Back

breakup-quotes-hd-wallpaper-18Breakups are always difficult, especially when they are not mutual. For the person who is broken up with, the pain can be unbearable. If your boyfriend has broken up with you, you might be feeling like you are not good enough, not just for him, but for anyone. This negative feeling should be dealt with in a positive way. You don’t want to let them affect future relationships. If you try and simply can’t move on, you may decide you truly loved your boyfriend and need to get him back. Believe it or not, there are some things you can do to increase the likelihood that he will come back to you.

Give him Space

Immediately after the break up can be the most difficult time. You may find yourself wanting to call him constantly. You might even find yourself wanting to drive by his house or his work. You might creep on his Facebook page or other social media sites to see what he is doing and who he is spending his time with. This can be extremely hard to resist, especially if you still have feelings of love and longing for this person, but if you truly want to get him back, the best thing you can do is to give him his space. There is nothing that seems more desperate than stalking someone, whether in life or on social media. And let’s face it, desperate stalker-types are just not all that attractive. Play it cool and stay away. To him, it will appear that you are moving on.


Exercising is not only a positive reaction to being dumped physically, but it is also very good emotionally. Those endorphins are known to aid in stress levels, mood maintenance, and even promote better sleep. If you are exercising regularly, you will truly be working on you, and again, moving on, at least in his eyes. If he sees you here and there looking better than ever before, he might raise his eyebrows in interest. Few things are more attractive to men than a woman who is independent and knows how to take care of herself; being in great shape doesn’t hurt either.

Get Back out There

Get back out in the world. Even if your heart is not in it, getting back your old social life will most definitely make its way back to his ears. He might start to wonder what you are doing and who you are spending your time with, just as you did with him immediately after the breakup. If he sees you out and about having fun, he will definitely see you as moving on with your life. Seeing a stronger, happier, more social you could be very attractive to him. He might start to think about what he is missing and wonder if he made a mistake. In the meantime, if you happen to meet someone you end up liking better than your ex, a total win-win situation. Who knows, maybe he will be the one begging you to give him another chance in the end.

When it comes to getting your ex-boyfriend back, first consider if this is something you really want. If it is, follow the aforementioned tips to reinventing yourself and peaking his interest in the process. From giving him space, exercising your heart out, and getting back into the social scene, you will be moving on, even if you are still fixated on him. He will see you doing all these things and wonder if he should have truly let you go. For more tips and ideas, visit